Sex toy world is vast. What’s surprising is that it is far more ancient than one can realize. Moving beyond its modern hype, these pleasurable tools carry cultural significance and a rich history that speaks about universal desire. Based on it, and covering their surprising origins, to their roles, within modern relationships, here are some incredible facts that will change how you, as a user, see these highly intimate accessories.
Invention That Predates Even Light Bulbs
Even before worldwide households had electricity, mechanical pleasure quests began. The very first vibrator, as per reports, made its debut in 1734. It wasn’t powered by a battery but just a single hand crank.
Initially, sex toys were marketed by physicians to treat conditions like hysteria in women. It is believed to have been a cure for achieving paroxysm or orgasm, a term well-recognized by the modern world. It made vibrator one of human history’s earliest personal appliances.
Sex Toy Use Goes Beyond Vaginal Use
It’s a misconception that sex toys are just meant for vulva owners. It is, though, not the truth, as this market is highly inclusive. As explained by many cam and sex experts, there are many toys for men, too. It includes toys for anal sex like vibrating cock rings, specialized sleeves, prostate massagers and more.
Note: Studies suggest that 45 to 50% of men have at least once used a vibrator.
Billion-Dollar Unregulated Industry
The global sex toy industry is huge. It is valued at more than $24 billion USD. This massive industry, quite surprisingly, is not formally regulated. It means there is no governing body that dictates which materials can or cannot be used.
The growth of sex toys industry is said to be driven by women’s empowerment. As noted by Erica Braverman, from Doc Johnson, feminism has been a major force to push this industry forward. It also helps to destigmatize female pleasure with mainstream moments, like the Sex and the City series, discussing the Rabbit vibrator openly.
Sex Toys Has Universal Appeal Across Communities
Sex toys are for all, irrespective of one’s gender/sexuality. As confirmed by data, these toys are widely used. Research also shows that the LGBTQ+ community is 2x likely to use sex toys regularly as compared to 16% of the general population. Quite specifically, 69% lesbians have also reported its use too.
Note: Many sex toy brands have confirmed that the consumer base is quite diverse. It creates active demand for the entire spectrum of LGBTQ+.
Shared Adventures and Solo Missions
Sex toys’ beauty lies within their versatility. They are great for solo exploration and equally powerful for enhancement of a partnered play. As per statistics from Adam & Eve, 55% of the people using sex toys choose to use them with their partners. They are also helpful for bridging gaps within long-distance relationships, especially with newly introduced app-controlled features.
For cam models, newer dimensions of sensation offer not just pleasure but also a chance to interact in an interactive way. It is also fun for their audience as they get to see live reactions.
All Are Not Equal
Not all sex toys are created equal, and neither are the sensations they offer. Such experience is not just about power, but it is about the type of vibration offered. High-pitched sounds come with buzzy vibrations. They sit on the surface of the skin. Rumbly vibrations, on the other hand, come with a deep and penetrating quality.
The market even offers oscillations, some popular suction toys, thrusting motions and more. Material here matters highly. Glass, steel and body-safe silicone are the top choices for sensation and safety.
Personal Discovery Journey
With variety, an important key is to find what works for one uniquely. As per sex educator Gala Vanting, there are 2 pronged approaches,
- Amplify the sensation you know you love or
- Try something that you haven’t tried before.
It is always important to listen to body needs. There is no pressure to continue with a toy that doesn’t feel right to you. Exploration must be quite personal. The goal must be just enjoyment and not endurance. Such philosophy applies to every form of intimacy, which includes anal sex, too. Just make sure to start small and do not forget to use lots of lube for better pleasure.
Pleasure at Varied Price Points
If you are planning to take a break for some good time, remember that the sex toy market is open for you. It caters to all budgets. One doesn’t need to drop cash for big orgasms.
As advised by many, to have a better experience is not about spending more money. For beginners, starting with a smaller price point would be a wise means to explore. Do not make a major investment in the first go. Many high-quality options are available for you, without any luxury tag.
Europe is Sex Toys Market Leader
While it is often perceived to be the staple of American pop culture, it is Europeans who are the biggest buyers of sex toys. As per market research data, adoption rates in Europe for sex toys are quite impressive. Studies even show that 70% of women and men in Italy have used a sex toy at one point. It showcases that Europe has a much more open cultural attitude towards personal pleasure.
Sex Toys Color Psychology
Even the color of a sex toy is part of thoughtful design that is influenced by cultural preferences. Sex toy manufacturers do pay close attention to such trends. For example, as noted by a few manufacturers, The French are highly drawn to the light purple color. They reject yellow color though. North American customers, on the other hand, are less picky. It shows an aesthetic within pleasure remains deeply personal as well as culturally specific, no matter whether it’s vaginal or anal toys.
End Note
From historical origins (used by physicians) to sex toys and its status of becoming a part of household items, these tools today are a fascinating testament to human innovation in the lookout for pleasure. Toys’ diversity further ensures there remains something for all desires and everyone. Such a journey of exploration, whether partnered or solo, is a positive and empowering step to understanding & embracing one’s unique pleasure.